| You know,
it always amazes me the lengths to which most guys will go to figure out
how to meet women easier. It seems we're always looking for a quick fix.
Well, I must admit, I'm one of those
guys.
After all, who wants to work? I want
to take things easy and lead a nice, stress-free life.
But let's face facts: I'd never meet
any women sitting in my appartment every day, doing yoga, and playing with
my cats.
So how can we meet women without
having to go out every single night to pick them up?
Well, allow me to share my solution
with you...
A little secret you may not be aware
of is that guys tend to meet most women from their social circle.
For example, let's say you have a
friend that has a sister. One day, you go over to the friend's place, and
his sister is there with a few of her friends. You're introduced to everybody,
hit it off with one of the sister's friends, and before you know it you
got a date.
How did that work?
Friend --> Sister --> Sister's Friend.
You met that girl you dated through
people you already knew! And this is the easiest way to meet people there
is, because if you're friends with people they know, you must be a cool
guy, right?
When you go out to meet women in
a bar or a club (or even to women on the street for that matter), you're
doing "cold approaches."
In other words, you're trying to
meet women you have no prior social relationship with. This is why meeting
women in these environments is so hard, because the women have to go through
the process of determining if you're a creep or not, if you're cool or
not, if you're someone they might like, etc.
But when you meet someone through
your social circle, it's a more natural interaction, and most of the screening
has already taken place due to the fact that you have mutual friends who
vouch for you.
The more friends you have, the more
inroads you have into meeting women. So if you can continually expand your
social circle, you'll always be meeting women.
It's important to note that you should
try to include many "female friends" in your social circle. Girls you have
simply as "friends," no more, no less.
Why?
Because women have more female friends
than most men. And if you are in their "friends" zone, they will want to
hook you up with their girlfriends.
Don't ask me why, they just do for
some reason. =)
But in order to get the most use
out of your social circle, you have to have an active social life. And
the best way to do that is to GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE!
If you don't know how to start doing
this, you're in luck! My book, The Art Of Approaching, is designed to help
you get the most out of your interactions and meet tons and tons of new
people to fill your social circle up with. Ance once that social circle
is in full swing, it'll be hard for you NOT to meet women. If you haven't
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Just think of how easy it will be
to get the women you want, once you know how to meet them.
To your success,
Joseph Matthews
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