Pick Up Lines That Work - How to Start a Conversation

by Joseph Matthews

Some pick up lines are just terrible.

For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:

"Nice shoes. Wanna bang?"

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

"Your daddy must have been a thief, because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes."

Using a line like these will get you nowhere with a woman fast, chances are she will not even speak to you.

But because the bad pick up lines get so much attention, people think ALL pick up lines are like this.

And this just isn't true.

A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.

Understand: The whole point of using a pick up line is to get a conversation started.

That is all.

You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with her, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.

Remember, if you do not begin a conversation, you cannot do much more.

You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.

Do you know that good pick up lines do just that?

Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.

It is essential to have at least a couple of good working pick up lines, especially for those times when you are nervous and cannot think of anything original that helps you take action.

But don't be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:

"Don't I know you from somewhere?"

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Other unimpressive pick up lines include complimenting a woman on her clothing, asking for directions and telling her she looks like a movie star.

Why do you think this is?

Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.

Bad pick up lines have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to thinking about her response, while encouraging an emotional reaction from her, this causes her to want to continue talking with you.

So how do you engage a girl?

Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.

Here is an example. Say to her, Can I get your opinion on something, please. Do you think it is strange for a woman to try to get pregnant at certain times so her child is born under a particular astrological sign? I would really be interested in a womans opinion of this.

Then you can follow up with a story about how you know a woman who wants to make sure her kid's zodiac signs are compatible with hers so they will be well behavied as they grow up.

These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:

1. Astrology 2. Children 3. Pregnancy 4. Marriage 5. Relationships

The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:

"Are you a believer in astrology?" (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)

"What sign are you?" (this leads into your sign compatibility with her - HINT: no matter what her sign is, you're compatible!)

"Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type."

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.

A good pick up line design draws a woman into an interestingly deep conversation, while allowing you the opportunity of getting to know one another better and becoming familiar with one another.

This is how you begin conversations.

Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and set up your first date.

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